Please Help Me!! My Mother Is Having An Affair With My Boyfriend, What Should I Do?

6 years ago

Please Help Me!! My Mother Is Having An Affair With My Boyfriend, What Should I Do?

A lady has been in a deep sorrow after it’s new year and i feel so sorry for her and all the whole team feel so sorry for her.

She caught her boyfriend having a secret affair with his mother.

Read what she wrote below;

“I’m not sure what to do, and I stand to lose everything and everyone I’ve ever cared about, I need help.
Me and my boyfriend “Roger” have been together for 3 years, and everything has been going perfectly.

He is The One. We’ve been living together for the past 18 months and have discussed marriage and kids, we are completely on the same page.

Recently, since his 30th birthday, Roger has been going through a bit of a crisis about being old. I noticed that he was making comments about our respective ages, and how I was so young compared to him.

I tried to appease him by saying that I wanted the same things he did.

I think he thought I wasn’t ready for lifelong commitment.

Our sex life used to be brilliant at the beginning, we’d both want it all the time and anywhere. But recently i’m the only person who’s been initiating any sort of physical contact between us.

I thought this was down to his birthday crisis and just thought that maybe I needed to give him a little time and we’d get back to normal.

And this is where my life turned shit. I was round my Mom’s house whilst she was out and borrowed her computer to check my emails, and saw that she’d left her email account open.

What I didn’t expect to see was numerous emails from my boyfriend!! There were pornographic pictures of him, messages about what they’d done alreadt and what they were planning to do, etc. I could only bear to read a few of the emails, and didn’t even bother checking the sent box before getting out of there!
This was a few days ago and i’ve not seen or spoken to my Mom since as she’s visiting friends.

I’ve been trying to act normal with my boyfriend but it feels like our whole relationship has been a lie. I don’t want to make a rash decision and end up regretting it. I love this man, and cannot think of a life without him.

I’m also scared that if I bring it up I will also lose my Mom who I thought I had a really good relationship with. But I hate thinking of what they’ve done and how they’ve both betrayed me. If I lose them both, I will have nothing left. I don’t know where I will go or what I will do”.