A man has begged for help on what to do after an ugly experience keeps happening each time he is about to romp with his partner.



I can't get an erection and it ruins my love life.

I am 28. I have not had many relationships but a year ago I met a wonderful girl two years younger than me and we grew close straight away.

She understood my problem at first but we ended up arguing because I could not perform.

I felt guilty and she said it had started to put pressure on us.

She broke up with me and I was heartbroken.

I don’t want to go through that again.

As much as I want to find love, it is stopping me looking for another girlfriend.