It’s hurtful, I don’t know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence.

I did tell her that we aren’t going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beauty personified.

I don’t have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along.

I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you.

I can’t marry a girl who doesn’t trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her.

I can’t have a girl who can’t cook as a wife, but GF yes.

I can’t harbour a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as GF yes.

I can’t take a girl who challenges me even to the point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as a girlfriend, yes

I can’t take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her.

I can’t marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife.

I can’t marry a girl who’s 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousins, or she doesn’t sleep with them, I don’t care.

I can’t marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to the highest bidder.

These are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn’t let go.

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes.

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes.