My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. 

We weren’t planning for it.

As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

It’s not like raising them in the village.

We live abroad and we don’t get help.

It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare, but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I don’t know if I am venting or asking for advice.

We are grateful but we are so tired already.