Please I Really Need Help! My Son Is Too Shy, What Should I Do?

Forum 2 years ago

Please I Really Need Help! My Son Is Too Shy, What Should I Do?

Help family. I have a child, a 5-year-old boy who grew up with his mum.

We were much younger when we had the child.

Until recently, she brought my child to me, travelled to Ghana and married. I don’t have a problem with that, though.

My problem is with my son.

He is too gentlemanly for my like. I don’t even know if gentlemanly is the right term.

The dude is too timid for my liking.

He looks exactly like me and all that, but his behaviours are just not what I was when I was his age.

He is too timid, kind and lenient.

Please, what could I do to toughen him up apart from beating?

I need my child.

Imagine one small boy was dragging the biscuit I bought for him, and he still has the boy and still gives him water.

It was the strangest thing I have seen in a while.

Where the hell did he get that leniency and kindness from?

I was never like this.

Please What Should I Do?