3 Sure Ways To Tell That Your Partner Is Cheat!ng On You
3 Sure Ways To Tell That Your Partner Is Cheat!ng On You
This always starts with a feeling, which is why you may find yourself reading this article, hoping maybe you’ll find something that makes you realize you’re just being crazy or jealous.
That feeling plays a huge role in discovering infidelity, as you’ll quickly become more aware and observant to what is going on in your relationship and how your partner is acting.
If your gut feeling lingers or there is a nagging suspicion that something isn’t right, pay attention to your partner to see if they have been displaying any of the following behavior changes or reactions. Keep in mind these are only common indicators of a Cheat!ng partner, not absolutes.
(1) They guard their technology
In the today’s’ world of constant communication and technology, an affair is easier than ever to discover. There’s credit card evidence, computer history, and smartphone usage. If there is an affair going on they’ll need to communicate, and to communicate they’ll send emails, texts, Facebook messages, or Whatsapp notes regularly. These will most likely be deleted upon reading, but you’ll need to pay attention to the way they handle their electrical devices. Did you used to sit on the couch scrolling through Instagram together and now they constantly leave their phone in another room or keep it in their pocket on silent? Is their phone suddenly password protected or they start staying up late “working” on the computer? Small changes to their need for privacy may mean that they’re hiding something from you.
(2) Emotional distance
This is one change you’ll notice right away. If suddenly your partner seems distant and removed from you and your relationship, it may mean they’ve shifted their emotional investment to someone else.
Relationships take a lot of work to maintain, so it will be difficult for them to be emotionally connected to two people at once and even harder to connect with someone whose trust they’re betraying. Notice if your partner avoids spending alone time with you, says less, and cuts you off from all of your regular warm and fuzzy interactions. This is a cue.
(3)They’re suspicious of you
Lastly, Do you feel like your once trusting partner is suddenly paranoid? If they’re suddenly pointing the finger at you, getting jealous over things that didn’t used to bother them, and acting suspicious of your behavior, then he or she may be trying to distract you from their own shortcomings.
By focusing all their energy on your perceived failings there will be less time for you to focus on what they’re doing. If you notice a change in your relationship’s level of trust, don’t take on the guilt, it may be a clever way that your partner is shielding himself or herself from getting caught.
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